Blog Reader Shares Her Pain Caused by an Irresponsible Husband

Hello Laila, pls hide my identity. Its 21st of December, just 4 days away from Christmas and my hubby is yet to say anything about giving me money to buy anything. No food stuff in the house, No cloth for the kids. I am not even talking about myself because I know that things are hard but the kids, theirs breaks my heart. He wouldn't let me work yet sometimes he does things like this and throws us all into trauma.
I don't even know what to tell the kids. They have been so happy these past few days in anticipation that we will soon go to the village to see grandma and wear new cloths but the silence from him means that we are not traveling either. I am very sad and I dont know what to do. I am sad and I dont know how long I will remain obedient to stay at home while my kids are made to go through this type of emotional stress. I need help