Fashion designer, celebrity stylist Toyin Lawani has been criticized, slammed so many times on Nigeria social media/blogs. Please read this moving story this amazing woman shared on her Instagram page..
Part1, i choose 2tell u my story 2day, no1 I kip evrytng in my life under wraps cse of d negativity out thr. 90percent of my life doesnt make it 2d Internet, I've bn tru alot in my life,bt il let u read All d truth in my Book&watch on my Reality show #Lifeofanenterpreneur.
Alot of pips snd me dm/mails sayn hw perfect iam, hw they wnt 2b like me, hw strong i
am,Askn hw i manage 2run 20 Buisnesses & take care of my 2 kids at d same time, i promised myself2 always kip goin 2encourage d people I inspire.
This powerful strong woman u see,is nt perfect. i hv my pains,i cry2, especially whn I'm misjudged, hv bn betrayed&stabbed in d back severally by friends, bt i promised myself I ws goin2make a change4 ladies in d indusrty.
So i put all my Talent2use,i kept pushing evn whn they drag my name in d mud,i never show weakness cse i hate pity,bt 2day il tell u ds,if nt 4my pr il post all i went tru,during d last 10days,bt its 2horrific,bt i insisted they televised it 4my Reality show.
whn i had @lilatmfashionista(Tiannah)i bled all tru d pregnancy nt knowing,I ws evn pregnant till abt 5months,3yrs after I had her i ws always hvn stomach pains&bleedn heavly tru my periods,went 2c my gynecologist he said I hd 3small fibriods&we agreed 2take them out thru laparoscopic surgery.
I wokeup thinkn it ws done,he said it ws on my womb,dt il lose my womb if he did it,&i didnt sign 4 them2 open me up,dt they had 2do it tru major surgery,he said one ws on my bladder,which made me pee myself whn i cough in public& it gv me terrible bck pains&leg pains,bt he thn advised me 2hv anoda baby.
,b4 d surgery,yrs afta i got pregnant wit @lordmaine1 despite d concequences ard it,my partner insisted i had d baby,foundout I ws pregnant 4months like D ist, cse i ws hvn periods,due 2d fibriods,ard 5mths i was bed ridn,
i hd alot of pains frm d pregnancy,flew 2my gynecologist in uk,he said I had sometng cld Red degeneration,whr d fibriods sucks d blood frm d baby&doesnt make it Grow,
sameday found out I had Gestational Diabetics i thot i was goin 2 lose d baby,they changed my diet,went tru nonstop pains till abt 7 months,later d baby started growing well & so was d 3fibriods, they put my sugar levels on check,during ds period.
With all d pains i evn had a fashion show in uk @afwlandafwn &no1knew wht i was goin tru,evn after d show i still ended up at d hospital d nextday& they couldnt give me any serious meds all tru my pains, cse it cld affect d baby, jst pain killers,so i had 2 bare d pain &in all this,
one day i was sleepn at home&some1 sent me a blog story,i read alot of horrible tngs abt d paternity of my child,with series of lies,jst2pull me & my Brand hv worked so hard 4 dwn,this worsen my health badly,bt my partner& motherinlaw stood by me all tru,Takn care of me&with prayers,they neva doubted me 4once.
During ds period i cldnt walk,eat,bath myself,nor talk,tnks 2my partner&brother,they use 2 bath me,also a sister God sent 2me,bt d pain stopped abt 7 months,Alot of old my staff had left me by thn,bt i raised a team of interns& worked till I was 8 months&2weeks,cse like everyonelse,we hv bills2pay,I even lost my home and formal shops,After i had d baby,i started working on my new site Tiannahsplacempire quietly...leaving some details out bt u cn read it in my Book...............
nxt day after my bday 2nd of march,i was hvn fun with family at federal palace,i started bleeding chunks of blood nonstop,Was rushed to Reddington&collasped when we got thr,they stopped d bleeding &pleaded with me 2do d surgery,bt i kept postponing it,cse i didnt wnt 2 lose my womb.
it happened again,bt ds time i cldnt fly out,a friend tld me abt a very good Lebanese hospital & they rushed me thr,took the 3fibriods out &saved my womb,i was so scared of d scar frm d surgery bt 2my surprise, it's so thin it's unbelievable,whn i see pips with cs scars,I'm like hell no,well i thank God for my life & my family for standing by me on my sick bed&Tnx to d wonderful doctors @celebdr Dr diya u are wonderful man,Drwale,droke,DrValerie,they all made me feel at home, too many jokes frm them&tnks2 my online TeamTiannah&my 40member of staff at Tiannahsplacempire dt,kept the Biz Going & ladies pls check urself regularly.
imagine if i was too far from the hospital? This is how people bleed to death.lord i thank you for your continous blessing &that I can hold my kids again & hv more of them......il serve you forever#ATM